Sunday, January 20, 2013

"The Unexpected Moment" (John 2:1-11)



In the year 354, Augustine was born in the little town of Tagaste, in North Africa.  Eventually he would become the most influential theologian in all of Christian history.
Augustine was extremely bright and intelligent.  His parents sought out the best educational opportunities for him. 
At seventeen, Augustine left home to pursue his studies, heading east to the great city of Carthage.  There, he studied hard, but also took it upon himself to enjoy the many pleasures of the city.  He even acquired a concubine.
Augustine studied many different philosophies, including those related to Christianity, and became a professor.  He kept asking questions – great thinkers never stop asking questions – and eventually, his intellect accepted the arguments of Christian philosophers, and he decided to become a Christian himself.
But there was one problem.  He understood that the particular pleasures he enjoyed were in conflict with his calling to become a Christian.  He was determined to become a Christian; not a lukewarm Christian, but a wholehearted follower of the faith.  Which meant he had to stop sleeping around.  So he prayed to God:  “Give me chastity and continence; just not yet.”
That was his prayer.  He fully intended to commit himself wholeheartedly to his newfound faith … someday. 
In the meantime, a conflict raged within, and he struggled with it.  He wanted to start that new life, and he knew he would.  But he wasn’t yet ready to let go of his old life.
One day, sitting in a garden in Milan, he was praying, “How long, Lord, how long?  Will it be tomorrow and always tomorrow?”  At that point he heard a child’s voice float over the fence, saying, “Take up and read.  Take up and read.  Take up and read.”  To Augustine, the child’s words seemed to be words coming directly from God. 
It just so happened that right next to Augustine was a copy of the writings of Paul the apostle.  Following the instructions that came to him from over the fence, Augustine picked up the manuscript and read these words:  “Not in reveling and drunkenness, not in debauchery and licentiousness, not in quarreling and jealousy.  But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires.” 
Then and there, Augustine decided that “tomorrow” had come.  The time was now.  His conversion was complete; he was baptized, he sold much of the property he owned, and went on to become the most influential theologian in all of Christian history.
Well, how often do we talk about tomorrow?  “Tomorrow I’ll do this.  Tomorrow I’ll do that.”  Time passes, and then – like Augustine – we wonder, will it be always tomorrow and tomorrow?
As Lemony Snicket said, “If we wait until we’re ready, we’ll be waiting the rest of our lives.”
Last week, I came across a story on a blog by Brenton Weyi.  He writes:  “I recently met a very kind man who was on top of the world. He had just gotten in a relationship with an amazing girl, he had just landed his dream job, and he was living in a great city. The conversation briefly moved to my own adventures and I mentioned how I had just returned from a summer of travels. As soon as I finished uttering these words, his spirit dropped a little bit; some of the contagious energy that he had been brimming with was sucked out of him. He then told me that spending a few months traveling had been a dream of his since he was a young boy. He loved adventure novels and wanted to experience what other parts of the world had to offer.
“So, I asked him: why not now? His girlfriend was the adventurous type, his job was flexible, and he was still at a prime age to make the journey. His response was a bit vague, but essentially he was waiting for the perfect conditions to go. I thought I saw the perfect conditions, and he thought he didn’t, but he envied people who could take the leap.
“It seems that instances like these are the norm, not the exception. I have found that many people in this world are caught in what I call the ‘Cycle of Waiting.’ They are always waiting for something; they waiting for life to become what they wish it to be, either for months or years; they’re waiting for the right time to move to a place they’ve always wondered about; they’re waiting for the perfect storm to talk to a person who has always intrigued them. But the problem is: they never break out of the cycle. New reasons always arise to put off their deepest desires, and by the time they realize this fact, much of life has usually passed them by.”
Reading this story by Brenton Weyi, and remembering the story about Augustine, made me wonder:  Did Jesus ever have the feeling that he wasn’t quite ready to do what he was called to do?  Did the idea ever come to him that he would start doing the work he was called to do, but tomorrow, not today?
It almost seems to me that this is exactly what was going on with Jesus at the wedding in Cana.  At the wedding celebration, a moment came that Jesus wasn't expecting, and that he didn’t feel he was quite yet ready for.  “My hour has not yet come,” he said. 
Jesus was at the wedding, and probably just wanted to enjoy himself.  When the wine ran out, he didn’t want to do anything to draw attention to himself.  Probably, he had been pondering in his mind when to “come out” publicly as the one anointed by God, one capable of doing great things, miraculous things… but now?
This was not what he expected.  He knew that his moment would come, but didn’t think it would come so soon.  He didn’t feel ready for it.
He wasn’t ready for the world to know who he really was.  He wasn’t ready for the challenges that would surely come, the controversy, the work.  He wasn’t ready to begin walking the path to Jerusalem, to confrontation, a path that he knew would eventually lead to the cross.
Maybe tomorrow would be better.  Or the day after that.  Or sometime next month…
Then again…he evidently cared much for the host family, a family that he evidently knew well, a family which, having run out of wine, was in a real predicament.  And maybe that predicament was partly Jesus’s own fault.  After all, he was invited to the wedding, but he showed up with a group of disciples whom he had just called a day or two before.  I doubt they were invited, yet there they were. Maybe they asked Jesus, “Do you really think it’s alright if we come?” And Jesus said, “Sure.  I know these people, it’ll be fine…”
And being poor, most of them, and being offered unlimited free wine… yeah, maybe, if Jesus hadn’t brought his disciples with him, they wouldn’t have run out of wine in the first place.
But still.  Was he ready?  Ready for his moment to come, ready to reveal himself?
Mary recognized this as “the moment.”  Just like the many who recognized my call to ministry before I did myself, and encouraged me along the path to ministry before I was even ready to admit that was my call, it was Mary who saw that the time for Jesus to begin his ministry was at hand.  It was she who saw it first, before Jesus. 
“Jesus, this is it.  You can do something about this, something very helpful, and at the same time begin the path you were called to walk.  This is your moment.”
At first, Jesus wasn’t quite sure.  “Dear woman, their problem is not our concern.  This is not my moment.  My moment has not yet come.  I’m not ready yet.”
But right away Jesus knew that if he waited until he was ready, then the moment would never come, and he’d be waiting for the rest of his life.  Maybe he had read Lemony Snicket.  Or maybe he knew that his mother was right.  (Mothers often are.)
Sometime later, Jesus told a story about a man who went on a journey.  Just before he left, he summoned his slaves and entrusted his property to them.  To one he gave five talents, to another two talents, and to another, one talent.  Even one talent is an almost unbelievably large amount of money, equivalent to millions of dollars.
Well, the one who had received five talents invested and traded, and earned five more.  The one who received two talents did likewise.  But the one who received one talent dug a hole in the ground and hid it. 
Why did he do that?  Well, maybe he said to himself, “This talent is worth a lot.  I don’t think I’m ready to invest my talent.  I gotta think about this.  I’ll do it tomorrow.”
And his talent just sat there.
Tomorrow became today.  Would this be the day he breaks out his talent and uses it to do some good?  “No, not today.  I’m not ready.  Maybe tomorrow.”
And then the next day, he says the same thing.  “No, not today.  I’m not ready.  Maybe tomorrow.”
And on it goes. Eventually, the master returns. The talent is still in the ground, doing nothing. And the master is not happy.
There are times in our lives when we are left wondering just what it is that God wants us to do, what it is that God is calling us to do, what kind of life God is calling us to live.  But I think that, more often, we find ourselves knowing exactly what it is that God wants us to do, what God is calling us to do, what kind of life God is calling us to live.
And we look forward to the day when we can get our lives reorganized and to start living the life God is calling us to live, start doing the things God is calling us to do, the things we want to do because we know they will bring meaning and joy to us and to those around us.  We look forward to getting rid of all the distractions in our lives that keep us from transforming our lives and finding wholeness.
But for now, all we can do is say: “No, not today.  I’m not ready.  Maybe tomorrow.”

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