Let me start by
asking: does your body make you feel whole? Does your body contribute to your
sense of wholeness? What is your attitude toward your body?
For the past few
years, I’ve been sharing photos online via Instagram. You share pictures on Instagram,
and people who see the pictures you share can tap a little heart to show that
they really like it.
It’s true for me.
It’s true for everyone.
However, there are
so many “perfect-looking” people on Instagram, that it’s hard to compete.
Instagram presents a false ideal of what a person should look like. But
Instagram is not the only place where this happens. In fact, it happens almost
everywhere: in movies, on TV, in magazines, and a whole bunch of other places.
The result is that
we are left feeling inadequate, because our bodies and our physiques just can’t
measure up to the images we see.
But still, we try.
We search for clothes that make our waists look thinner, shoes that make us
look taller. We spend too much time obsessing over a crooked smile, or wrinkles
around the eyes, or thinning hair.
We do what we can.
We suck it in. We wear makeup. We dye our hair. We whiten our teeth. And, just
maybe, we even exercise.
And we judge.
We’re so judgmental. We judge other people. You see someone on the beach in a
swimsuit and think, “a person with a body like that should NOT be wearing a
swimsuit!”
But we don’t just
judge other people. We judge ourselves. We judge ourselves even more harshly
than we judge others. We take one look in the mirror, and are depressed the
rest of the day, because the face in the mirror doesn't look like the pretty faces
we see on Instagram, or on the magazine pages, or in the movies.
This is no way to
find wholeness.
Any talk about our
bodies, our might, our strength, needs to start with the recognition that your
body is a precious gift from God. Some of you don’t think of your body as a precious
gift. Some of you think of it as a curse. A different
body, you think, would be a blessing; but not this imperfect, flawed, aging
body that you do have.
But listen to what
scripture says…
God knows you. Intimately.
God knows all your flaws and imperfections. Your crooked smile and your warts
and your wrinkles. God knows how much you weigh. God sees all the things you
try to hide.
And God thinks you
are wonderful. Beautiful. Worthy of love.
What we need to do
is think of our bodies the same way the psalmist did: with awe and wonder.
My eyes aren’t
perfect. Ever since sixth grade, I’ve had to wear glasses to see clearly. Some
glasses I wore were dorkier than others. But I’m still amazed at my body’s
ability to take light rays, flip them over inside the eye, convert them to
signals that the brain can read, and then the brain processes those signals
into an image of my surroundings that appears in my mind. It’s incredible!
Or even something
as simple as moving a finger… all I have to do is think it in my brain, and
that thinking causes the muscles in my finger to contract in a way that makes
the finger move back and forth.
And when I
exercise: When I push my muscles to their limit, what actually happens is that
the muscles are injured slightly. That’s why the day after a really intense
workout, you feel the pain. But in that time of healing, the body decides,
“Hey, I better do more than just repair these muscles to how they were; I
better repair them even better, so
that they are even stronger, so that next time, they can handle the task.” And
that’s how exercise makes muscles grow stronger.
Truly we are
fearfully and wonderfully made.
I could go on.
Have you ever
given birth, or watched that happen? My God! The things the human body is
capable of!
And yet, at the
same time, the wonder and beauty of a smile, or a twinkle in the eye, can, in
its own way, be just as amazing.
Genesis 1.26-27:
“Let us make humankind in our image, according to our likeness… So God created humankind
in his image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created
them.”
Your body is the
image of God!
1 Corinthians
6:19: Your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you. You are not your
own. Therefore glorify God in your body.
Deuteronomy 6.4-5:
“Hear O Israel: The LORD is our God, the LORD alone. You shall love the LORD
your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your might.”
With all your
might. All your strength. In all that your body can and can’t do, God is
glorified.
So what should we
do with this precious gift?
What should we do
with any precious gift that has been
given to us?
Take care of it,
of course.
I don’t take care
of them so that they might become
something worth admiring. They already are something worth admiring… and that
is why I take care of them.
People exercise,
and that’s good. But many of them do it for the wrong reasons. They exercise,
they watch their diet, because they think that if they can get their body to a
certain weight or size or shape, then
it will be worth appreciating.
But that’s backwards!
Your body is right now worth
appreciating. It is worth admiring. It is a precious gift.
And that’s why we exercise and eat healthy
and take care of ourselves.
I do hope you
exercise and take care of yourself. But not because you need to look beautiful.
You already are beautiful. And that’s
why you should take care of your body.
Exercise during
the day helps you sleep well at night. Exercise releases endorphins in the
brain which lift your mood and help combat depression. For me, exercise clears
my mind and sometimes leads me into a prayer-like state, although the reason
for that is probably because one of my favorite types of exercise involves
running or hiking outside, in the sunshine, in some beautiful place, listening
to the birds and the wind… and the silence. I don’t like gyms or treadmills. If
I had to run on a treadmill in a gym with TVs on the wall showing, I don’t
know, talk shows of people gabbing away, interrupted by annoying ads – that
would not work for me! It would nourish my body, but not my soul. That would be
something to endure, that’s for sure!
You gotta find
what works for you!
I don’t drink
soda. I haven’t had more than a couple of sips in the past three years. It’s
not worth it. And I pick and choose which desserts and sweets I eat. I pass on
the stuff that is good, but I do say yes to the stuff that is really good.
Someday, God
willing, I’ll live long enough that old age will keep me from climbing to the
top of mountain peaks. Already, I think about some of the hardest hikes I’ve
done, like reaching the summit of Mount Whitney – elevation 14, 500 feet – and
I think, “I don’t need to do that again.” But I’ll keep doing what I can, whatever
that is, for as long as I can, in a way that brings wholeness to my body as
well as to my heart, soul, and mind.
Because I really
do want to love God with all my heart, with all my soul, with all my mind, and with all my strength. And to do
that, I need to take care of my heart, take care of my soul, take care of my
mind, and take care of my body.
And I encourage
you to do all you can to love and honor God with all your heart, soul, mind, and body. Doing so not only glorifies God,
but also leads you on the path to wholeness.
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