Michael Gurian
has written numerous books, most of them on the topic of childhood and
adolescent development. Many of his
books include quotes at the beginning of each chapter or section, and given the
topics he covers, one would expect these quotes to be from philosophers or
psychologists or neurobiologists.
However, one
chapter in his book The Purpose of Boys
begins with a quote from the 2007 movie Transformers:
“Sam Witwicky, you hold the key to earth’s survival,” a line which is spoken by
Optimus Prime to Sam Witwicky in the film.
It made me think
of the camp I’ll be counseling next month at Loch Leven. Often at camp, one night during the week is
movie night, and I thought: What a good
movie this would be to show to the high schoolers I’ll be counseling.
For those of you
who haven’t seen the movie, it’s about Sam, an awkward, somewhat goofy teenager
who discovers that robotic aliens from outer space are involved in a war, and
earth has become the main battlefield.
And, indeed, Sam does hold the key to earth’s survival, although for me
to explain why would take too long.
In some ways,
it’s a remake of the story of David and Goliath. Yeah. David is just a teenage boy, not very popular
– at least not among his many older brothers – and yet he holds the key to
Israel’s survival. Israel is involved in
a war with the Philistines, who have just presented their number one
warrior: a ferocious giant of a man
named Goliath.
All of Israel’s
warriors cower with fear and run from Goliath, too intimidated to even attempt
to fight him. Then David shows up, and
asks them why they aren’t fighting.
Their response: “Have you seen this guy?”
So that’s when
David realizes it’s up to him. He gets
an audience with the king, and informs the king that he, David, will fight this
Philistine.
The king takes
one look at David and says, “but you’re just a boy!”
But David – with
perhaps a bit more confidence than Sam Witwicky has – points out to the king
that, in fact, he is quite capable, having defended his sheep from numerous
attacks by both bears and lions; and if he could fight off bears and lions,
then – with God’s help – he should be able to fight off this Philistine.
One thing about
David: he knows that there is definitely
some purpose for his life. He feels
called upon to defend his people, his nation, to offer himself to the service
of some cause much greater than himself.
And that,
according to Michael Gurian, is what so many young people are missing
today. A purpose. A call.
So let me tell all
of you “young” people today: there is a task, an important task, to which God
is calling you. There is a purpose to
your life. Discovering that purpose, and
working to fulfill it, is what makes your life complete. It’s what transforms Sam Witwicky and David
and countless others from boys into men.
So before we go
any further, pause for a moment and think about what it is that God is calling you to do. What is the important task that is yours to
complete? In what way do you hold the
key to earth’s transformation, earth’s salvation?
Neither Sam
Witwicky nor David were much to look at.
Not all superheros come with bulging biceps, rippling pecs, and a way
with the ladies. Most, in fact, are just
ordinary people like you and me, people who go about their lives until they
discover the one important task to
which they are called.
I’m reminded of
another movie, City Slickers, in
which the old cowboy Curly says, “Do you know what the secret of life is?” And he holds up one finger and says, “This.”
And Mitch, played
by Billy Crystal, says, “Your finger?”
Curly says, “One
thing. Just one thing. You stick to that and the rest don’t mean
nothing.” [I had to alter that line a bit.]
Then Mitch asks,
“But what is the ‘one thing?’”
And Curly,
smiling, says, “That’s what you have
to find out.
That ‘one thing’
is the important task to which you are called.
Theologian Matthew Fox says that “the universe is asking a great task of
us today; it is extending to us a pressing invitation to reconnect our daily
living to the Great Work.”
For some people,
it takes an entire lifetime to find what their purpose is. Some never do find their purpose. Others, however, discover it early on.
Nkosi Johnson
died of AIDS at the age of 12. Yet he
felt that his life was important. He
once said, “Do all you can with what you have in the time you have in the place
you are.”
That’s a lot of
wisdom for a 12 year-old.
If you need help
discovering what task God is calling you to, consider these words of theologian
Frederick Buechner: “Vocation is where our greatest passion meets the world’s
greatest need.” Just think about what
your greatest passion is, and where that intersects with what the world needs …
or even what your community or your family needs. Think about where your passion and the
world’s need meet, and you might find your “one thing.”
So David went to
the king and said, “I’ll fight this Philistine.” And once the king was convinced to let David
give it a try, he set about clothing David with his own armor: he put a bronze
helmet on David’s head; he clothed him with a coat of mail; and he strapped his
sword on over the armor.
Then David took a
few wobbly steps and said, “this isn’t going to work. I can’t even walk with all this on. This may be what you need to complete the
task, but it’s not going to work for me.
The clothes don’t fit, the armor is too bulky, and I don’t even know how
to use a sword.”
And David took
all that off, and went out to meet Goliath.
So often, what
gets in the way of us doing our life task, accomplishing our “one thing,” is
thinking that we don’t have all it takes to get the job done. “If only I had this, if only I had that…. If
only I had the right armor, the right clothing, the right tools….”
Well, if you
don’t have all the right tools to get the job done, then perhaps it isn’t the
right job for you.
Or perhaps you
only think you need what you don’t
have, because that’s what you’ve been told.
The king told David that he needed the armor, the mail, the helmet, the
sword, and David could have easily said – despite his own beliefs and
convictions – “well, if you say so. If
that’s what you think I need in order
to get the job done, then I guess I better put it on.”
After all, it’s
hard to tell the king no. Kings can be very persuasive.
The world can also be very persuasive, and
the world tells us we need so much in order to do anything; that we’re not even
whole and complete human beings unless we have what the world tells us we
need. Get this, buy that, you’re not
ready, you’re not adequately prepared, unless you do all that the world is
telling you to do.
One of the things
counselors often do to get ready for a week at Loch Leven is go shopping. Sometimes the whole staff, after arriving at
camp the day before the campers arrive, will then turn around and go back down
the hill, into town, to Walmart, to load up shopping carts of candies and toys
and trinkets and stuff, for the groups they will be leading at camp.
I have over 60
weeks of experience serving on the staff of various camps, and one thing I’ve learned is that the best, most
meaningful moments at camp have absolutely nothing to do with the stuff that
counselors often think they need to bring.
There is a supply room at camp, filled with things like markers and
paper and yarn and so much more, and I’ve found that almost everything I need
is there; and if it’s not there, then I probably don’t really need it. Sometimes, things actually go better when my
group of campers must figure out how to do what we want to do with the supplies
we have.
I think there’s a
real life lesson there.
At one point in
his ministry, Jesus appointed 70 of his followers to go into various towns and
villages ahead of him; and he told them to carry no purse, no bag, no
sandals. They didn’t need to burden
themselves with extra stuff that they didn’t need.
My favorite
translation of this passage has Jesus saying to his followers: “You don’t need any equipment. You are
the equipment.”
You don’t need to
try to be like someone you aren’t. You
just need to be who you are. Just be
yourself. Be who God created you to be,
and do what God has called you to do.
Take what you’ve already got – your passion, your purpose – and find
where that intersects with what the world needs.
In Transformers, the military and
government leaders had all the tools, all the knowledge, all the technology,
all the equipment, all the intelligence – and they got it all wrong. Same thing in the book of 1st
Samuel: the military and government leaders had the armor, the intelligence,
the strategies, the technology and the equipment, and yet were unable to defeat
the Philistines.
It’s not the clothes or the equipment that
make you the man or woman God calls you to be.
It’s not your fancy car or your iPod or your 401k or your 2nd
home. It’s not the degrees you’ve earned
or the shape of your body or the number of wrinkles you have or don’t have.
It’s time to stop
thinking that you’re not adequate. You
are.
It’s time to stop
thinking that you need this or that in order for your life to be complete. You are already complete.
It’s time to stop
thinking that you need to have a certain unattainable look in order to take
your place in the world. Your place in
the world is right where you already are, and it has nothing to do with how you
look.
As part of the
body of Christ, you have the key to earth’s salvation. It’s up to you to bring wholeness to this
fragmented world.
You don’t need
any equipment. You are the equipment. You are
the one God has chosen, to accomplish all that you are called to do. As Optimus Prime says about the humans he has
come to know at the end of Transformers:
“I have witnessed their capacity for courage, and though we are worlds apart,
like us, there's more to them than meets the eye.”
When he tells Sam
Witwicky at the beginning of the movie that he holds the key to earth’s
survival, he is speaking of his grandfather’s spectacles on which a code is
written. However, as Michael Gurian
points out in his book, Sam learns over the course of the movie that the real
key is hidden inside himself. And that’s
something that’s true for everyone.
Meaning and
purpose in life come from more than a slick car, or seeking to be independent
of your wacky parents; it comes from having an essential purpose in the world,
and working to fulfill it.
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